Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Life

Life sometimes behaves very unpredictably. U hv to face some things which u hvnt thought in ur weirdest dreams. A friend of mine hv called me 20days back, asking if i can help her with some money. She had an interview for a pg course & for admission she would be needing few lacs. Meanwhile i forgot to cal her & ask abt interview. Today she msged me & gave 2 shocks. She lost her father & missed the interview. Going into details i came to knw that, he was having intestinal obstruction, CT scan showed adhesion as a cause. He wanted her to see the reports before operation but she couldnt make it on such a short notice. He got operated & next day he told her not to come as he is fine. So she stayed back. Next to that, he started behaving abnormally & drs diagnosed encephalopathy. He was treated accordingly only to develop something like pneumonia, renal failure, septicemia, septic shock & finally death. When she reached there he was in CCU, on ventilator, under sedation. He didnt saw her, forget talking. She wanted to leave next day for interview, but doctors told her he is critical & not to go. On very next day, the inevitable has happened. The family went into the shock. A simple adhesionolysis ended up in death. She lost her father, though he was not a lone breadearner, losing father is something that u dnt want to happen to self.
I remember she went all the way to UP for a job, coz her father wanted her to serve at that place. The hospital he has worked at, the place he loved. But the same place denied her the chance to meet her father for the last time. He couldnt convince her for marriage till his death. On the other side, she missed her interview & also the last chance of getting pg admission this yr. She lost her father & a yr. All at the same moment.
Life never gives u second chance when u need it the most. So, dnt deny any respect or happiness to ur parents & loved ones. Leave nothing for the next time, coz next time u might hv to repent. Life is just a gamble, u never knw what is written in ur destiny.

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