Life vs Life

            Strange part of life is, so much has been talked & written about the life, but nobody has yet found the 'perfect life.' There has always been controversy regarding somebody's attitude towards life. But whom you are showing attitude, whom you are dealing with? It's none other than the you, yourself. Whatever you do, it might affect others but it invariably is going to affect you. Every small decision of yours is going to have a big impact on your life someday. The good, the bad, you are not going to escape from any of these. So, here comes your take on life. The way you want to play on the front of your own battlefield.
            Safety approach is something most of us likes to follow. They never agree that they are playing on the backfoot but there is no aggression either. It is always 'risk-benefit ratio' which runs into their brains. Most of the times they end up choosing the things which just appear as the safety tool than something to cheer about. 'Cheer' is something they always pretend to have, but do they really have it? They just made it a habit to be happy in their own world. An independence inside four bricked walls is something it sounds like. They tend to sacrifice so many things in life just in the name of risk. They rarely chose the best thing because it never comes without problems. While driving a car, how expert the driver may be, he cant assure you the zero probability of accident. Same way there is nothing in life which comes 'risk free'. They lead this calculated life, but do they enjoy the God's most beautiful gift called life!
            Some people believe in 'happy go lucky' way. They choose the things that will make them happy, without caring for the risks & drawbacks. To live life fully, you have to give life a chance to flourish fully. This cannot be done by playing safe every single time. You have to take chances, calculated risks, accept challenges & overcome the obstacles. People will try to prevent you, criticize you & even stop you, but never stop following your heart. It surely matters to please the people who matters to you but pleasing yourself is equally important. You are best to others when you are best to yourself.  There are pros & cons of everything but it's up to you to decide what you want most. What will make you happy & what you are going to enjoy. So, never hesitate to express yourself, never forget to appreciate the things you like, never deny gratitude to who deserve & never get tired of being sorry if you are wrong. Laugh loudly, enjoy uncontrollably, forgive quickly, make new friends, never keep grudges. Life is a gift to cherish, a chance to perform & not a task to complete!